AnyDVD HD from Slysoft went Kaput awhile ago.
RedFox then took over dev of AnyDVD HD and also has *very* limited 4K support. But any regular BD can be ripped and stored/streamed just fine. You have the option to rip as ISO or as a file/folder structure.
JRiver handles playback quite well on a server such as Silenzio.
Craig, you've got some serious capability. I know I've nudged you in the past...