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Originally Posted by Jerome W
(Post 442841)
Richard,
I'm just following the Shindo threads with one eye but I have to say something here.
1/ you always can do BOTH : allowing to yourself pleasures, gifts, rewards, and not forget others and support the ones in need. No reason to feel "guilty" whatsoever. You worked hard. You did not rob anyone. You deserve your gifts.
2/ My wife, as most of them, probably including yours, ahev nothing against what I spend actually. She does not care about that. We have the means. Good for us.
The point she makes and the point that talks to me is that "upgraditis" makes us spend a lot of time and energy ( it is not only about money ), instead of caring about our own life and real treasures.
Ciao friends,
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On 2/4/12 over on the Wilson forum you posted:
“I am also leaving AA for a few months but will remain an active aficionado and supporter of this wonderful community. I will come back for sure but I have to freeze a little bit. In the mean time, to all my friends who want to communicate, please do it by email.”
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